英语文章阅读及译文：其实他没那么喜欢你

　　女孩儿永远忘不掉她喜欢的第一个男孩儿。就算那一幕并不是那么完美。但总会有个人告诉你这句至理名言：“亲爱的，你知道那个男孩为什么那么做，为什么这么说你吗？因为他喜欢你。”

英语文章阅读及译文：其实他没那么喜欢你

　　就是这句，我们一切烦恼的开端。你知道这意味着什么？这是多么鼓舞人心啊…不，蛊惑人心…一厢情愿的以为如果男孩对你使坏的话，就意味着他喜欢上你了。为什么我们老这么和对方说？是因为一语道破真相对我们来说太惨无人道，而真相却如此显而易见——其实他没那么喜欢你。我们看过的每一部电影，听过的每一个故事，都叫到我们去等待真爱。那经典三段式、意想不到的告白、相信自己是那个例外。但有时我们太过于专注最后的好结果，以致忽略了身边的'那些信号，忘了怎样去分辨那些真正想要和我们在一起的人和迟早会离开我们的人。但或许有的完美结局里并没有男主人公。或许你就能靠你自己，整理碎片，重新开始，轻松淡定只为更美好的未来。可能那个完美的结局就是，向前走。

　　又或许完美结局是这样的：在经历了无数次的拒绝，伤心，无数次的自作多情，和数不清的痛苦和尴尬之后，你依旧（对真爱）满怀希冀.

　　A girl will never forget the first boy she likes, even if things don't quite work out. But usually someone is there to offer words of wisdom: “Honey, do you know why that little boy did those things and said those things? Because he likes you.”

　　And there it is, that's the beginning of our problem. Do you know what this means? We're all encouraged…No! programmed… To believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk, that means he likes you. Why do we say this stuff to each other? Is it possible that it's because we're too scared and it's too hard to say the one obvious truth that's staring everyone in the face?——He's just not that into youEvery movie we see, every story we're told, implores us to wait for it. The third act twist. The unexpected declaration of love. The exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending, we don't learn how to read the signs, how to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don't, the ones who will stay from the ones who will leave. Maybe this happy ending doesn't include a wonderful guy. Maybe it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on.

　　Or maybe the happy ending is this: knowing that through all the unreturned phone calls, and broken hearts, through all the blunders and misread signals, through all of the pain and embarrassment, you never, ever gave up hope.

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