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情love

关于的英语演讲稿

ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there have been myriads of diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries of the universe. in fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems we have confronted with .

however, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can clarify the meaning of “love”, neither can they deal with the various affairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us all in. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we are always entangled in it. it is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds in different people from different angels; it is a merciless net that upsets us or even tortures us to death. it is also a supreme net which almost no human can surpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe through the holes of the net should be regarded beyond commonness and vulgarity. love can bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.

love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey king who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mother's pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents, grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, we'll see no end. family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of us are determined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many don't expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. but since it's very difficult to know how much we should expect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge.

parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and they'll even complain about their children, because they just can't understand why their children don't care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. nevertheless, one's experience determines his ideology. young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. once there is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keeps them away from their parents. objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achieve success. in the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. they would complain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. the love from uncles and aunties would naturally dwindle after they have had their own children. only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they are also too old to wait for any repayment. as for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes “the poor have no friends even if they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains”. granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have run away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. another saying goes “close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldn't go too far into it, otherwise, we'll surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying togeth

关于的英语演讲稿 [篇2]

five score years ago， a great american， in whose symbolic shadow we stand signed the emancipation proclamation。 this momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice。 it came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of captivity。

but one hundred years later， we must face the tragic fact that the negro is still not free。 one hundred years later， the life of the negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination。 one hundred years later， the negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity。 one hundred years later， the negro is still languishing in the corners of american society and finds himself an exile in his own land。 so we have come here today to dramatize an appalling condition。

in a sense we have come to our nation's capital to cash a check。 when the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the constitution and the declaration of independence， they were signing a promissory note to which every american was to fall heir。 this note was a promise that all men would be guaranteed the inalienable rights of life， liberty， and the pursuit of happiness。

it is obvious today that america has defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are concerned。 instead of honoring this sacred obligation， america has given the negro people a bad check which has come back marked "insufficient funds。" but we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt。 we refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation。

so we have come to cash this check -- a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice。

we have also come to this hallowed spot to remind america of the fierce urgency of now。 this is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism。 now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice。 now is the time to open the doors of opportunity to all of god's children。 now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood。

it would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment and to underestimate the determination of the negro。 this sweltering summer of the negro's legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality。 nineteen sixty-three is not an end， but a beginning。

those who hope that the negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual。 there will be neither rest nor tranquility in america until the negro is granted his citizenship rights。 the whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges。

but there is something that i must say to my people who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice。 in the process of gaining our rightful place we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds。 let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred。

we must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline。 we must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence。 again and again we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force。

the marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the negro community must not lead us to distrust of all white people， for many of our white brothers， as evidenced by their presence here today， have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny and their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom。

we cannot walk alone。and as we walk， we must make the pledge that we shall march ahead。 we cannot turn back。 there are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights， "when will you be satisfied?" we can never be satisfied as long as our bodies， heavy with the fatigue of travel， cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities。 we cannot be satisfied as long as the negro's basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one。 we can never be satisfied as long as a negro in mississippi cannot vote and a negro in new york believes he has nothing for which to vote。 no， no， we are not satisfied， and we will not be satisfied until justice rolls down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream。

关于的英语演讲稿 [篇3]

关于青春的英语演讲稿(一)

saying goodbye to childhood,we step into another important time in the pace of young,facing new situations,dealing with different problems..... everyone has his ownunderstanding of young,it is a period of time of beauty and wonders,only after you have experienced the sour ,sweet ,bitter and salty can you really become a person of significance.thre time of young is limitted,it may pass by without your attention,and when you discover what has happened ,it is always too late.grasping the young well means a better time is waiting for you in the near future,or the situation may be opposite . having a view on these great men in the history of hunmanbeing,they all made full use of their youth time ,to do things that are useful to society,to the whole mankind,and as a cosquence ,they are remembered by later generations,admired by everyone.so do something in the time of young,although you may not get achievements as these greatmen did ,though not for the whole word,just for youeself,for those around! the young is just like blooming flowers,they are so beautiful when blooming,they make people feel happy,but with time passing by,after they withers ,moet people think they are ugly.and so it is the same with young,we are enthusiastic when we are young,then we may lose our passion when getting older and older.so we must treasure it ,don't let the limitted time pass by ,leaving nothing of significance.

关于青春的英语演讲稿(二)

dream flying

our ordinary life is a dream, from the very moment of landing, we are a dream to come! similarly, we left this world at the time, it will also be left with their own dreams. call in the dream, we gradually grew up thinking of gradually mature, and have learned more and more, understand more and more. our dream is also more and more content, more and more rich. one can not forget that book title mountain crossing the sea during the day and night; not forget that the coexistence of a bitter years of joy; not forget that a bit more earnest remainding respectable mentor taught ... ... 。

the face of the past, we open their minds and hearts of the door, bathed in sunlight to accept and listen to exhort the time, we dream of flying. is to achieve the dream of the cornerstones of long-term vision; the dream is the beginning of the power savings; dream world is a necessary condition for rational; dream qijia country is the premise of the world is flat. to this end, the respect of ethics, education can be clearly responsible for, love. we will be ready at all times ... ... singing rooster dawn broke through the silence, awakened the dream of youth, the old lamp that lit the lamp immortal, with the aid of a weak good care of the light heavy luggage, embark on a new journey began. eastern rising sun, leaving a string attached to their native land is the footprints of the feelings and give up. goodbye dear land, we have our dreams, we all need to face new. the rudder has been the fate into their own hands, taking their own route. believe in yourself and you work hard, must be clear after dark. to do the masters of time, for every seconds, when the ship set sail hard, you are ready? show your style and create brilliant tomorrow. said that the sky did not leave traces of the birds, but i have been over. is an eagle, it is necessary to fly across the sky, is a tree, it is necessary to cast a time, the courage to go flying, the courage to go into, you dream of flying, i believe you will be more brilliant tomorrow, tomorrow you will be more exciting. cherish the present, should grasp the opportunity. friends, the dream of flying now, let us gather in the glory of that day.

关于青春的英语演讲稿(三)

first i want to ask you some questions:

1、do you know what is youth?

2、how do you master your youth?

youth

youth is not a time of life, it is a state of mind ; it is not rosy cheeks , red lips and supple knees, it is a matter of the emotions : it is the freshness ; it is the freshness of the deep springs of life .

youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity of the appetite , for adventure over the love of ease. this often exists in a man of 60 more than a boy of 20 . nobody grows old merely by a number of years . we grow old by deserting our ideals.

years wrinkle the skin , but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul . worry , fear , self –distrust bows the heart and turns the spirit back to dust .

whether 60 of 16 , there is in every human being ‘s heart the lure of wonders, the unfailing childlike appetite of what’s next and the joy of the game of living . in the center of your heart and my heart there’s a wireless station : so long as it receives messages of beauty , hope ,cheer, courage and power from men and from the infinite, so long as you are young .

when the aerials are down , and your spirit is covered with snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you are grown old ,even at 20 , but as long as your aerials are up ,to catch waves of optimism , there is hope you may die young at 80.

thank you!

关于青春的英语演讲稿(四)

melody of youth

ladies and gentlemen:

good morning! i am very glad to stand here and share the topic of “youth” with you. i come from xx and my name is maxfu. today my topic is “melody of youth”.

some people say that youth is a rising sun, carries infinite hope and irradiates dazzling light.

some people say that youth is a ball of blaze, flickers the flame of passion, dances the melody of youth.

some people say that youth is a roaring river, bursts out the voice of confidence, flows the boldness of youth.

some people say that youth is a fresh willow, has not only the endless tenderness, but also the iron will.

it’s true. youth is ought to be a life with great persistence, which is full of hope, enthusiasm, assurance, belief and keep striving during all your life.

since we know how wonderful the youth is, how can we build our own youth wonderful?

firstly, i think you should set an ambition. sam walton has told us: high expectation is the key to everything. ideals are the navigation mark and ambitions are the power for our striving.

secondly, i think you should think more. look before you leap, we are impetuous, if we consider everything calmly; there’s nothing that we can not do successfully.

thirdly, i think you should work hard. an idle youth， a needy age. when we are young we are supposed to struggle, to do everything by ourselves so that we can get more experience for our future. as it’s said the beautiful rainbow always appears after a ding-on and the wealthy harvest always comes from laborious tillage.

lastly, i think you should have a mood of optimism. being positive, when we meet the frustration, can help us learn how to he stronger. cause we are young, there’s no fail if only we try it again. don’t get dizzy with success, and don’t get upset with failure.

by the way, being in youth doesn’t only mean you are young at your age. youth is not a time of life, it is a state of mind. when the aerials are down , and your spirit is covered with snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you are grown old ,even at 20 , but as long as your aerials are up ,to catch waves of optimism , there is hope you may die young at 80.

youth is a painting, which engraves by magnificent and wonderful color. youth is a song, which resounds with brightness and sweetness. when we are provided with passion and calm consideration, clinging goals and keep striving during all of our life. we can sooner or later have a perfect youth, a regretless youth, and make our melody of youth more and more wonderful!

that’s all. thank you!

翻译:尊敬的各位评委、亲爱的同学们：

大家上午好!很高兴今天能够站在这里和大家一起讨论“青春”。我是来自xx级xx班的maxfu，我今天演讲的题目是“青春的旋律”。

有的人把青春比作一轮冉冉升起的红日，伴随着无限的希望，散发出无限的光芒。

有的人把青春比作一簇熊熊燃烧的火焰，闪烁着激情的火苗，舞动着青春的旋律。

有的人把青春比作奔腾的江河，迸发出自信的咆哮，流淌着青春的无畏。

有的人把青春比作翠绿的垂柳，拥有无限的柔嫩却又有着内在的坚韧。

诚然，青春就应当是一段充满了无限希望、伴随着火热激情、怀揣着一份自信、抱定一个信念——坚持不懈的人生。

如此的青春既然这么美好，我们到底应当如何去打造呢?

首先，青春需要目标。沃尔顿曾说过：“远大的理想是开启万物的钥匙。”理想是我们前进的航标，目标是我们奋斗的动力。

其次，青春需要思考。三思而后行，年轻的我们是血气方刚的一代，当我们用冷静的思考去面对人生中的一切，还有什么事做不成、办不到的呢!

再者，青春需要努力。少壮不努力，老大徒伤悲。年轻的时代，就是一个应当努力奋斗的年代，通过自己的打拼去积累今后的人生阅历，去历练自己。要知道迷人的彩虹出自大雨的洗礼，丰硕的果实来自辛勤的耕耘。

最后，青春需要有良好的心态。做任何事情都要一个好的心态，遇到了挫折就要学会坚强，因为青春没有失败，只要你再次努力。有一句话叫做“得一时淡然，失一时坦然。”

青春是一幅画，镌刻着瑰丽、浪漫的色彩;青春是一首歌，回荡着欢快、美妙的旋律。当我们用青春的激情，冷静的思考，执着的追求朝着远大的.目标不懈努力之后，我想我们一定能够打造出一个美好的青春，一个无悔的青春，让我们的青春旋律更加绚烂多彩!

关于青春的英语演讲稿(五)

youth is not a time of life; it is a state of mind; it is not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and supple knees; it is a matter of the will, a quality of the imagination, a vigor of the emotions; it is the freshness of the deep springs of life.

youth means a tempera-mental predominance of courage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over the love of ease. this often exists in a man of 60 more than a boy of 20. nobody grows old merely by a number of years. we grow old by deserting our ideals.

years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.

worry, fear, self-distrust bows the heart and turns the spring back to dust.

whether 60 or 16, there is in every human being’s heart the lure of wonder, the unfailing childlike appetite of what’s next and the joy of the game of living. in the center of your heart and my heart there is a wireless station: so long as it receives messages of beauty, hope, cheer, courage and power from men and from the infinite, so long are you young.

when the aerials are down, and your spirit is covered with snows of cynicism and the ice of pessimism, then you are grown old, even at 20, but as long as your aerials are up, to catch waves of optimism, there is hope you may die young at 80.

翻译：青春不是年华，而是心境;青春不是桃面、丹唇、柔膝，而是深沉的意志，恢宏的想象，炙热的恋情;青春是生命的深泉在涌流。

青春气贯长虹，勇锐盖过怯弱，进取压倒苟安。如此锐气，二十后生而有之，六旬男子则更多见。年岁有加，并非垂老，理想丢弃，方堕暮年。

岁月悠悠，衰微只及肌肤;热忱抛却，颓废必致灵魂。忧烦，惶恐，丧失自信，定使心灵扭曲，意气如灰。

无论年届花甲，拟或二八芳龄，心中皆有生命之欢乐，奇迹之诱-惑，孩童般天真久盛不衰。人人心中皆有一台天线，只要你从天上人间接受美好、希望、欢乐、勇气和力量的信号，你就青春永驻，风华常存。

一旦天线下降，锐气便被冰雪覆盖，玩世不恭、自暴自弃油然而生，即使年方二十，实已垂垂老矣;然则只要树起天线，捕捉乐观信号，你就有望在八十高龄告别尘寰时仍觉年轻。

关于的英语演讲稿 [篇4]

关于中国梦的英语演讲稿一：

good afternoon ladies and gentlemen, today my topic is “my dream,chinese dream”.

dream, is a beacon of your life; dream, is your better vision; dream, is you ideal wings; and having dreams, you will have a #url#

“now, everybody was discussing the chinese dream, i think, realizing the great rejuvenation of the chinese nation, is the greatest dream of the chinese nation since the modern time.the words are claimed by xi jinping. this is the general secretary of xi jinping s chinese dream. but as a contemporary college students, what is our chinese dream? can we dare to #url#

the answer is yes. we college students have no dare not dream, we not only need to bravely dream, but also hard to dream! as we all know, the highest honor of the nursing field is get the nightingale prize. each of years china had more or less people gotten this honor. whenever i see the time that they wearing a silver medal and holding flowers standing on the podium to getting applause and glory, i couldn't help of imaging myself standing on the stage like them in future, that could be how glorious. this is my dream, my dream of nightingales.

and i, a new era of college students, i am proud of my dream, proud of our motherland. when the dream into reality, in a era which let the youth realizing their ideal, i believe my dream will be realizing in the near future!#url#

finally, i would like to inviting all of yours, please stretch out your hands, let us applause to achieve the dream of tomorrow!

that's all. thank you.

关于中国梦的英语演讲稿二：

our new president xi jinping came up with the dream of the chinese nation's rejuvenation on december 29, 2012. he said: the chinese dream is a dream of national strength prosperity and people's happiness. our people have an ardent love for life. they wish to have better education, more stable jobs, more income, greater social security , better medical and health care, improved housing conditions and better environment,they want their children to grow well, have ideal jobs and lead a more enjoyable life. to meet their desire for a happy life is our mission."

he also expounded his views of realizing our great dream. he said: to realize the dream, china must take the road of socialism with chinese characteristics. the country must also foster the chinese spirit,in which patriotism and the spirit of reform and innovation play a core role, and unite 1.3 billion people of all ethnicities into a great source of strength.

i always ask myself what can i do for our great chinese dream ? as we all know that the wiser the youths are ,the wiser the nation will be；the wealthier the youths are ,the wealthier the nation will be；the stronger the youths are ,the stronger the nation will be. here the word wealthy means: enriching our knowledge reserve. as a new generation of science, every one here shouldering the great historical mission of ma-ki-ng china powerful and strong. you may say that this may exaggerate our role, but i want to say you are wrong. if i am a little screw our great dream may be a multifunction and complex machine. through this example i just want to say i am very tiny but i am indispensable .

president xi also said: we must make persistent efforts, press ahead with indomitable will, continue to push forward the great cause of socialism with chinese characteristics, and strive to achieve the chinese dream of great rejuvenation of the chinese nation.we are closer than in any other time of history to the goal of rejuvenating the chinese nation. we are more confident and capable of achieving this goal than in any other period of history," “.””

i believe that as long as all of our university students unite together and perform our own functions that study hard in school and work hard after we graduating from university . we must be able to achieve our great dream meanwhile enrich ourselves unwittingly! lets us unite together to realize chinese nation's great rejuvenation to struggle!

关于中国梦的英语演讲稿三：

dream, with each one of us.

dream is beautiful, it is the bottom of my heart the most beautiful expectations, so the dream also become our long-held beliefs.

dream is the sun, it makes people from impetuous to solid, from the hesitation to the firm, and on the road to success.

dream is powerful, it is the life source of forward momentum; lofty dreams can inspire a life all potential.

because of this we will go to dream, to grasp the dream, the pursuit of dreams.

and because of country's dream is the one people's little dream, is not affected by big dream small dreams, but just because one little dream realization and achievement of the establishment of the great dream, why not?

my dream, our dream, to improve the chinese dream.

to you the day of my dreams to realize, is standing at the time of china.

关于中国梦的英语演讲稿四：

hello, ladies and gentlemen. it’s great to be here. first of all, thanks for your coming. tonight, what i am gonna talk about is innovation. who can tell me what is innovation? we all know that, since 1978, china has been through the greatest changes brought by the reform and opening-up. so what we can see from the reform and opening-up? the power of innovation. that’s why i am here. i am here to show you my chinese dream.

i want to talk about the future and how we're going to win it. if we want to make innovation. but firstly, we should make sure that china is a place where we can make it if we try, where we can go as far as hard work and big dreams will take us. we understand that it’s not going to be a cakewalk, this competition for the future, which means all of us are going to have to do our best. we are going to have to win the future by being smarter and working harder and working together. innovation is the spirit of our country, the motive force for our country’s prosperity.

关于的英语演讲稿 [篇5]

关于自信的英语演讲稿一：

good afternoon, honorable judges, ladies and gentlemen, the title of my speech is defeat makes me more confident.

most people may think that defeat is a kind of obstacle that prevents you from being successful. quite the contrary, i believe defeat makes me more confident.

as you may know, if you can not be an excellent loser you will never win. everything in my life always shows both my advantages and disadvantages. i have been entering a lot of contests. i don’t care about the results, but feel it is more important to learn something during the process. after i failed in the contests each time, the judges always gave me useful comments and suggestion addressing my shortcomings and helped me improve myself step by step. so, now i am more self-confident to face any challenges and believe i will be the final winner in my life.

关于自信的英语演讲稿二：

founder of success napoleon hill said: "the self-confidence, manage human use and the only channel universe, infinite intelligence is all the 'miracle' of the foundation of all scientific laws can not be the birthplace of the mystery of miracles . "he also said that such a thought-provoking words:" if we analyze the personality of those outstanding figures, you will see they have a common characteristic: they start work before, always fully believe in themselves the ability to remove all difficulties and obstacles, until victory! "

indeed, in large part to promote confidence in a person's success, many people start from the history we are all evident. confident people from distress to rescue, you can see the successful people in the dark light, can give people the power struggle. perhaps you could say: "with confidence, you have half the success."

work the same two people, self-confidence of people at work in a more relaxed when the association of the way through: dang good job done, we will consider it for our own strength, in the event shizaiwufa completed the task, then that might be really difficult task in itself. the lack of self-confidence of people will bring success to good luck, the ability to not fail as their own home. however, as this little psychological difference, although the two spent time and energy are similar, but often more self-confident side of the gain is much greater.

how many scientists at home and abroad, especially inventors, which is not tackled on his own confidence in what the project? will fail again and again again and again aroused their fighting spirit - they think: the more failures, the more successful near distance. but confidence is not an innocent person will be attached to the body, first of all who have genuine talent, then can there be real self-confidence, and use it as an extremely useful power. empty full of confidence, it would only say it is presumptuous bale. this so-called "confidence", not only failed to promote human progress, but unfriendly.

king of the hill network commentator said: "there is no real thing, only the confidence, the future is only one - dead, and done for." this sentence sounds excessive, but in fact the only self-confidence if it is indeed a very dangerous.

similarly, in our study, only self-confidence is not enough, self-confidence and efforts should be organically combined. some students often see the occasion of the examination, not the least bit nervous, confidently into the examination room. however, after examination, this part of the students in some scores of deadly accuracy, and some fraction is ashamed to see people. this seems unreasonable thing is very si-mp-le: this part is both a kind of self-confidence in students, but also hard to study hard; a single self-confidence, but did not pay the effort. these two types of students are full of confidence seems to examination, but usually not the same as the accumulation of knowledge, different consequences.

so, we life, you should do first one full of classics, before a confident person. because confidence is just a void of power, want to be successful, you have to give confidence to attach to "hard work" on the burning of the mechanical self-confidence, so confidence should force it to play out.

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many people yearn to be more self-confident. yet they have no idea how to achieve that objective. they look at others who have the gift and say, “hey that’s what i want. i hate feeling unsure of myself. i wish i could stop obsessing about what others think of me and quit worrying about disappointing other people. i want to stop anguishing over my decisions and torturing myself about my mistakes. i think it would be so great to feel self-assured, hold my head up high and stand tall. i’ve never been self-confident. i wish there were a way i could be.”

there is a way. you don’t have to be born with self-confidence. self-confidence can grow and flourish and ripen and blossom until you actually come to feel as though there is a different person inside of you. here are some insights that might facilitate the quest.

learn what a self-confident person is really like. they are not cocky, know-it-all people who don’t care what anybody else thinks. they have their doubts. and make mistakes. and are far from perfect. however, they are willing to acknowledge their inadequacies without dwelling on them. they do this by maintaining a sense of humor, putting problems in perspective, and focusing mainly on what they’ve done right, not wrong.

though self-confident people do believe in themselves, they don’t try to suffocate others with their ideas or beliefs. they are confident in what they know not only because they read, learn and think but also because they respect their instinct, intuition and the unique body of knowledge that they’ve developed by living life. they realize that one doesn't have to be labeled an “expert” to believe in one's own truths.

self-confident people don’t undermine their own worth by comparing themselves with others, only to conclude that they aren’t “good enough”. they appreciate their strengths and accomplishments and can acknowledge, without embarrassment, their weaknesses. they don’t live in the “victim” position. even if something really bad has occurred, they turn it into a challenge, remembering to be grateful for the little things in life.

self-confident people let the world know who they are. if they want something badly enough, they know they have every right to “go for it.” yet, they also know that the path will rarely be easy. mistakes, blunders and failures are part of the learning process. they seek to learn from their mistakes and do not waste time torturing themselves over what “could have been”.

self-confident people are not obstinate people. if they have an idea about something and it differs from the way another person is thinking about it, they will usually try to look at it from that person’s point of view, see why it makes sense to them. yet, a confident person’s sense of self is grounded. it does not blow in the wind. their ideas do not fluctuate based on what others deem are important.

i hope these insights are helpful to you. if so, perhaps one day you will be able to say what the actress phyllis rashad once said, simply but eloquently, ” i am just myself and who i am is a lot.”

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